你的被动，正在淘汰你
<p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/e747aece5527419c126713c921a03d59.png" /> </p> <h1 style="font-size:24px;font-weight:400;color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " background-color:#ffffff;text-align:center;"=""> <span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">-01-</span> </h1> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>最近听了一段引发深思的话，出自音频节目《好好说话2》。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>马东说他亲自把关公司所有面试的最终环节。在面试新员工和实习生时，他经常会问：</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">一份西红柿炒蛋该怎么做？</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>我当场发懵，按下暂停，戏精上身，演了一出，换作是我，该如何作答呢？</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>无厘头的题目后，肯定埋着玄机，我怀着几种猜测继续往下听。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>应聘者凡是支支吾吾回答不会做的，还是结结巴巴报流水账似的，都没过马东这一关。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>其中一个应届小伙子的回答是这样：</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>“马老师您这问题真有意思，我猜您应该不会真想考验我的厨艺吧，我厨艺不行，但我对如何调出一杯好的鸡尾酒倒是颇有心得，我和您说说？”</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>这就是打动马东的满分回答。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/bdae92499306ddb9a8921481c158d634.gif" /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>因为小伙子看懂了马东的提问诉求，一个内容公司当然不是真的在招厨师，而是想</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">考察对方的表达能力、思维逻辑和抗压能力。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>马东欣赏小伙子遇到奇葩题目后没有有一说一，而是想深一步，反客为主，把被动化为主动，把劣势变成优势，翻盘面试的走向。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>这个小伙子的回答我反复听了几遍，越听越妙。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>先把马东<span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">占据主动权的局面打破</span>，再展开一段平等的互动对话，最后以勾起马东好奇心的方式，<span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">掌握了主动权</span>。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/a4506a9edcfc2d463b2ea9e58101e037.png" /> </p> <h1 style="font-size:24px;font-weight:400;color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " background-color:#ffffff;text-align:center;"=""> <span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">-02-</span> </h1> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>电影《穿普拉达的女王》也有类似情节：</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>刚毕业的安妮去面试时尚女魔头米兰达的助理时，场面被动到难堪。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>她没看过米兰达公司出品的杂志，直到面试当天才知道米兰达，对时尚既没追求也没见解。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/e64dc0b3dd3153370656c6f7d35e31e7.gif" /><span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <br /> <span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>安妮化被动为主动，总共分了2步：</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">1. 介绍自己的长处</span></span><span>，比如自己曾是西北日报的主编，获得全国大学记者竞赛的第一名，揭露了校工团的不法剥削。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">2. 面对米兰达的不为所动</span></span><span>，豁出去说</span><span>“在你看来我不适合这里，不够苗条漂亮，不懂时尚，但我很聪明，学得很快”。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>结果争取到米兰达助理的职位。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>在面试那么短的时间内，安妮从完全不占优势，马上意识到自己与米兰达要招的人之间的差距，介绍自己的长处，突出自己的不同，用聪明和勇气，把一度很被动的场面，赢得一些主动分。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">一个在面试中化被动为主动的人，在工作中更能大概率地化被动为主动。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>安妮的助理工作，从预定晚餐到检修车辆，从寄感谢信到人肉运货，从联络不能起飞的飞机，到拿到未出版的书稿……</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>这种工作，<span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">没有彪悍的主动解决难题的能力，撑不过两天。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>而化被动为主动的重要性，不只在电影中，在现实中也成为很多企业<span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">看重的素质。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>前几天，看到我新书策划公司的崔老板说，以前招人时喜欢用看起来老实，名堂不多的听话姑娘。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>做管理的时间越长越发现，由这类人组成的团队，如果自己什么时候脑子短路或状态不好，整个团队就不转了。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/c327ab9899e6aa82750f53df51bc9946.jpeg" /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">现在用人，改换思路，喜欢在专业领域有见解，敢于表达且做事主动的人。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>吃过亏的老板们已经开始调整招聘策略了。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>大概只有面试中就有掌握主动权意识的员工，才是日后工作中能主动解决问题的种子选手。<br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/7ad4053f0f495760b0d7f0b1acbb35db.png" /><span></span> </p> <h1 style="font-size:24px;font-weight:400;color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " background-color:#ffffff;text-align:center;"=""> <span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">-03-</span> </h1> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>在和菜头的《你的喜欢很重要》一书中，讲到一个事儿：</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他早年是航空公司的一名放行飞行的签派员，有天在为早班机准备文件时，发现某架飞机没有降落地机场的天气报告，如果缺少这项报告，就不能放行飞机。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他有其他准备工作要忙，就把这事交给副班处理。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>等他忙完，询问进度时，副班安静地说</span><span>“通讯录上的电话都打不通，无法联系对方机场气象台”。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他压着火气问</span><span>，“然后你做了什么”</span><span>，副班平静地说</span><span>“等消息”</span><span>。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他压不住火了，</span><span>“飞机一会儿就要起飞了，你要等到什么时候”</span><span>，副班也无奈</span><span>，</span><span>“我能有什么办法，你让我找谁去”。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/131ee93b359660a6252d3ae4d9db3602.jpeg" /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>和菜头冷静接手，摆在他面前的问题变成：</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">通讯录上的电话打不通，那么，应该怎样找到能打通的电话。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>最后，他打了对方当地的114 ，查到机场总机电话，辗转联系上气象部门的人，拿到天气报告，航班没有延误。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>对于副班来说，被动遵照工作流程，避免承当风险；而对于和菜头来说，</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">尽可能主动灵活，想办法解决问题。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>正如和菜头所说</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">“这种选择会在十年、二十年后带来完全不一样的人生”。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>我觉得副班这种人设在职场中很眼熟，习惯于听话，习惯于被动，当一件超出操作流程或领导指令的难题出现时，他们就理所应当地开启被动模式。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>而像和菜头这种为了解决难题，主动思考和主动作为的人，更容易脱颖而出，都不必等个一二十年。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/b5f9fad93ac652e7d9c287fc3f5dc9f8.jpeg" /><span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/419403e6a9793d17277a377f94605f9b.png" /> </p> <h1 style="font-size:24px;font-weight:400;color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " background-color:#ffffff;text-align:center;"=""> <span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">-04-</span> </h1> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""><br /> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>这些年，</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">不要习惯被动，要化被动为主动</span></span><span>，是盘踞在我心中的职场铁律。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>见过许多人因主动得福。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>比如与我同龄的小丁，她的职场跃迁史就像荡秋千，荡到最高点时果断跳上一个更高的秋千，如此循环。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>起初从小公司跳到大巨头，我好奇她如何找到那么好的机会。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>她告诉我，一次聚会上认识在大巨头上班的一个朋友，斗胆问朋友有没有内部推荐机会，朋友觉得她挺适合，就向公司推介小丁。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>小丁的笔试和几轮面试都发挥出色，进入梦寐以求的公司，介绍她进去的朋友也获得内部奖励。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>有次公司有个领导岗位有空缺，采用的是内部竞聘的玩法。她觉得自己符合条件，就报名争取，站在一众领导前，大方陈述自己的理念和经验，成了岗位黑马。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <img src="https://ossimg.xinli001.com/20180626/d3a203bd8ba674f75fbda1cbb23521ee.jpeg" /><span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <br /> <span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>也见过太多人因被动得祸。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <blockquote style="font-size:16px;color:#999999;font-family:微软雅黑, " background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <p> • 面试时像个乖学生一样，什么问题都不敢问，什么要求都不敢提，等着HR主动pick； </p> <p> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p> <span><span>• </span>面试没接到通知，不好意思打听下自己哪些环节没做好，争取接下来有针对性地改进；</span> </p> <p> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p> <span><span>• </span>试用期乖乖地等着转正，不好意思主动去打听公司提前转正的标准，符合条件就申请；</span> </p> <p> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p> <span><span>• </span>转正以后，面对任何超纲的工作难题，要么去求别人，要么消极等待，很少主动解决；</span> </p> <p> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p> <span><span>• </span>工作一段时间后，有适合的岗位，内心再想要也不会去主动表明自己和岗位的契合点；</span> </p> <p> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p> <span><span>• </span>所在行业有夕阳气息，也不会抬头看看发展所趋，看看自己有没有主动突围的可能性……</span> </p> </blockquote> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">越来越选择被动，越来越习惯被动，在职场上缺乏存在感，游离在升职加薪外。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>自己想法也越来越暗黑：</span><span>同事谈的薪水凭什么比我高，那个岗位肯定是内定的，公司的选拔机制有漏洞。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>被动等待的是他们，觉得不甘的也是他们。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他们的被动，错过了机会，增添了臆想，最严重的是，反刍着遗憾。<br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>而一个有追求、有野心的人，从不等着机会主动降临，等着领导主动认可，等着薪资主动上涨，这些都是他们面对很多被动的局面，</span><span><span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">通过主动思考、主动解决、主动争取换来的。</span></span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span>他们没时间埋怨怀才不遇，没时间感慨时运不济，因为他们深知，主动一点，才够尽情。</span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span><br /> </span> </p> <p style="color:#444444;font-family:微软雅黑, " font-size:16px;background-color:#ffffff;"=""> <span style="font-weight:700 !important;font-size:inherit !important;">而一直被动下去，哪天被淘汰了都不知道。</span> </p> <div> <br /> </div>
